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This video on interracial dating will open your eyes


What race do you prefer? Do you think this study is accurate. Have you ever been in a interracial relationship?

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Paper Boi Clothing is a urban hip hop clothing line aimed at the growing urban hip hop fashion population in twin cities area. Check em out!

Hot 97 Summer Jam Line Up is pretty sick…

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Learn to take sometime for yourself

By Leo Babauta

Two minutes here and there rarely matter very much over the course of a day, a week, a lifetime.

But there are two minutes you could spend, right now, that would have a huge impact on your life.

I’ll save you the suspense: it’s two-minute meditation.

And it’s extremely simple: take two minutes out of your extremely busy day (cat videos) to sit still and focus on your breath. Just keep the gentle fingertip of your attention on your breath as it comes into your body, and then goes out. When your mind wanders, take note of that, but then gently come back to the breath.

That’s it. No mantra, no emptying the mind, no perfect lotus position, no meditation hall or guru (bald Leo Babauta). Just pay attention to your breath. No need to push thoughts away, just come back.

That might seem too simple to matter much. And in truth, you won’t get miraculous effects after two minutes of meditation. You won’t reach nirvana, you won’t be suddenly calm all day long.

But you will probably feel a little calmer. You will have created a small space of undistractedness in a sea of distraction (Facebook). You will have learned to notice when your random thoughts pull your attention, urge you to go check on something.

This is an amazing start. And if you do this two minutes tomorrow, and the day after that … all of a sudden you have a few new skills. You can create space between your thoughts and urges, and your reaction. You can create a pause that will cure your procrastination habit.

And the best part: it only takes two minutes a day. If you don’t have two minutes to spare, you might want to loosen up your schedule (Flappy Bird).

Practice the Habit

If you’re interested in forming the meditation habit, we’re working on that in April in the Sea Change Program.

Sign up in the next few days to join the Meditation Habit module: get a plan, a video, some articles on the habit, a live webinar with me and an accountability forum. Join us here.

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Why you should never expect anything from anyone

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People will always let you down so it come to no surprise that youmay have to do everything on your own. Life is all about taking your dreams to the next level and it’s hard to do that when you are constantly looking for people to follow through.

Face it. You’re on your own until you succeed.

Put all of your energy into what you want to be. Make no mistake the more you do the more you get.

The more you wait for people to come to your rescue the more you will see yourself go down the drain

Buy this for your girl the next time she go down on you!


(Miami, FL) Adult wellness and health company HiPleasures has spent the last year crafting their first offering, Sugar Cum, which has officially launched this week. Sugar Cum is a unique, all-natural pill used to invigorate anyone’s sexual experience by making men and women taste sweeter.

Currently, Sugar Cum is available exclusively for sale on their website, and selected retailers in the Miami area will be carrying the product in the next two weeks. Distributors interested in working with HiPleasures can reach them via email at


“Being able to satisfy your partner orally is so important, and there aren’t many products out there that can help you improve your hygiene, which is crucial to great sex and relationships,” says CEO Brittani Feinberg. “Our product is all-natural and you will see the benefits almost immediately, especially if you take it on a regular basis. We recommend couples both take the product for the maximum effect.”

The HiPleasures website has also been revamped and features new information, photos, reviews, sex advice and much more. Check it out at

All requests media inquiries about HiPleasures should be directed to Erika Icon of The Rub PR at


HiPleasures is an adult sexual wellness and health company that creates high quality, all natural products geared towards men, women and couples looking to make their sex lives more enjoyable and venture out within their sexual boundaries. Their goal is to become known as sex educators and create an open forum where consumers feel comfortable talking about their needs and desires, no matter their gender, race or sexual preferences.

Their first product is a secretion sweetener called Sugar Cum, aimed at making you and your partner taste sweeter and bringing your sexual satisfaction to new heights, a level of high pleasure, just like the name of the company says. Look for more products in their line to be introduced in the future, including toys. Keep up with all their products and the latest news by following them on Twitter at @HiPleasures and Instagram, and liking their company Facebook page

One on One with Jennifer Best


How did you start modeling?
I started modeling for a Taschen book by Dian Hansen “La Petit Mort”

Tell us what are you into besides modeling?
Mainstream, XXX and study Japanese Fan Dance

Who is your favorite artist?
ARAKI, David LaChapelle, Helmut Newton

What are 3 of your top hobbies?
Foreign Films, Kundalini Yoga, Community Service

Tell us how you overcome obstacles?
Fear of speaking in public, I was petrified trying to get my SAG/AFTRA

What’s the biggest city you’ve been to?
I lived in NYC travelled the world I love Hong Kong, London and Paris

What’s your most favorite city to visit?
NYC, Santa Fe and Kyoto I consider all of these “home”

Do you like pets? Do you own any?
I love pets and just lost my little service dog Kabuki a 4lb Pomeranian.

What’s the easiest way to get a woman to climax?
Easiest way to get a woman to climax is to go down on her!

What type of men do you go for?
I have a thing for Asian men but I’ve dated a little bit of everything personality is most important

How can we follow you online?
Twitter @JenniferBestXXX
Instagram JenniferBestXXX
Website coming soon

What do you want you future fans to know about you?
I love doing XXX and am looking for a Commercial agent eventually my dream is to go to Japan to work on Pink Films and develop my “American Geisha” character more.

See more photos from this article in our April 2014 issue. Get your copy here

Time Travel With The Alley Cat Of Riverside!


3375 Iowa Ave Ste F
Riverside, CA 92506




Bobby with the Alley Cat of Riverside invited us over to his anniversary party.  The Alley Cat is unique to say the least, and when you meet the owner you meet his friends and family.  No where else can one find the type of humble approach these guys have.  After some time with Alley Cat it was soon realized that the Alley Cat isn’t so much a store as it is a part of a massive subculture.  Stuck in the past? No!  This subculture proves that the class and style of a certain era can essentially last forever!

Interview by Raymond A. Merritt

Tell us about this anniversary party and what it means to your business! 

I’ll tell you what the two year milestone is quite an achievement for the alley cat riverside.   We have been through credit fraud, a break in that left the store in shambles which almost had the store close down.  We have had a lot of support from car clubs and the rockabilly scene.  It’s been a  lot of blood, sweat, and tears, man.  We are still here today and this is our way of saying thanks! 



What’s the most rewarding thing for you so far in providing the Alley Cat?

Honestly, it’s giving something back to the custom car culture.  It’s one of the only blue-collar shops in southern California.  I believe people are beginning to see what we are doing.  People from around the world from Japan, Brazil, coming all the way to see our 800 sq ft hole in the wall shop.  It’s pretty neat.

What’s the benefit of being in the best place in the world, southern California?  How does this affect and influence your business?  

First off, California IS the place to be.  Born and raised here I don’t think I could actually leave California.  I have been everywhere in the country and California is it for me.  As far as the shop location, we are right in the middle of some great places.  We have Vegas east of here and Santa Monica west of here.  So, we’re in a good spot.  We love this community as well as giving back to it. 

IMG_4249 You’re doing more than just a share or a post on social media, you are throwing a party for your community.  That speaks volumes of the type of businessman and kind of person you are!

Well, I really appreciate that.  That is something I always intended to do.  Always find one way or another to give back to the community as well as the subculture that’s becoming more appreciated around the world.  We want to keep it comfortable, not raise prices, and keep it right for the workin’ man.  We keep it real and make it enjoyable for the subculture.

Now about the subculture, tell the people more about what it is and what it means to you.


I think the nostalgia of the era.  The cars, the hot rods, the customs, the music. Everything from Elvis to some Bluegrass.   We go back to appreciating that era and it feels very Americana.  We have a pretty nice sponsorship with an American brew company Pabst Blue Ribbon established back in the 1800′s.  We want to continue to provide and support this subculture giving the most that we can and we strive to be around or the next ten years.  

What are some of the custom products and do you specifically provide men’s apparel?


Believe it or not, we provide for men, women, and children.  The biggest seller is the men’s.  Our pomade is a big seller along with our t-shirts and hats.  Guys come in and pick their stuff up.  They like their steak and potatoes and that’s what we provide.

What are some short-term and long-term goals you’d be willing to share with readers?

We just started the SlickCat Barbers in the store.  Providing affordable cuts right here in the back of the store.  A shop within a shop.  Pomade is our best seller and we are working with Shiner Gold out of Arizona.  That’s going really well.  I may be saying too much but the end of 2014 or in 2015 we look to open Alley Cat Orange County.  As long as things go well we are shooting for Orange County and maybe more from there. 


What would be the one message you would have to society in general?

Keep an open mind.  Just keep an open mind.  This is an era that I have missed and many others as well.  If it wasn’t for the style and class of this era we wouldn’t have what we do now.  This has become a part of my life and my lifestyle.  It has helped bring a  community together.  


Where can people find you online?  

We are on Facebook forward slash the alley cat riverside as well as Instagram at alley cat riverside.  Our store online is  Just to throw this out there, I want to thank everyone for the support from the entire community.  I have met almost every like we’ve had on Facebook so far.  Lots of love to all our people out there.  


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Alwayz Therro wants to thank Bobby and The Alley Cat along with everyone involved with the subculture!  We wish them all the fortune and prosperity towards the future!

Why great things come to people who think positive

Positive people attract anything they want in their life. They think about closing a deal and the deal is closed. They think about a healthy family and they make it happen.

Positive people are the anchors to every family.


Why great things are hard to get

Follow your passion

Great things are hard to come by only because they are worth it.

Anything worth it takes hard work.

Stand on your own two feet


Stop depending on others for validations about who you are and who you should be.

Learn to stand on your own two feet, by doing what you know to do in your life.

Never second guess yourself again. Make sure your mind and your brains are in tact

Music – Michael Jackson – “Slave to the Rhythm” (prod. by Timbaland)

You know you going to get some good music if Timbaland on the beat

Do something great


Don’t just say you want to be great actually do something great.

Take your time and do what you know you need to do.

Develop a habit of staying on the course regardless of what’s going on.

Stop taking no for an answer.

The #1 reason you can’t get anything done


Found a great article I thought I’d share with you!

By Leo Babauta

Every problem you or I have (and they are many, small and large), is rooted in fear.

For some, that might seem obvious: the question is how to beat the fears. For others, it’s not so self-evident: why are my financial or relationship or procrastination problems caused by fear?

Let’s tackle both questions — the Why and the How.

First the Why: think about each problem you have, and then think about why you have the problem. Or why you aren’t able to solve it.

A few examples:

  • Procrastination: you probably fear failure, or the discomfort of doing something hard, or your fear missing out on something important (why you check email & social media instead of doing the hard task).
  • Debt: There are many possible causes, but often you’re spending more than you make because of a shopping habit, or a fear of letting go of some of the comforts you’re used to. The shopping habit might be caused by anxiety (fear that something you want isn’t going to happen) or loneliness (fear that you’re not good enough) or wanting your life to be better than it is (fear that you’re not OK as you are). Letting go of comforts (like your morning Starbucks, or your nice house or car) can be difficult if you fear discomfort, fear that you won’t be OK if your life is less comfortable, fear that others will judge you if your house/car/clothes aren’t as nice.
  • Relationship problems: There are obviously lots of possible causes (including that the other person has major problems, though you should always look at yourself as well) … but some fears that cause relationship problems include fear of letting go of control (causing you to want to control the other person), fear that you’re not good enough, fear of abandonment and other trust issues, fear of not being accepted, fear of accepting the other person (actually this is a fear of control problem).

Read the full article here. What do you get out of it?